Sunday, August 16, 2009

Do we really care...........

do we really care

Do we really care for what we actually doing for ourselves and others infect very few don’t even care to think when they come across few things that really affect not only his/her but everyone’s life its like when you cross the road blindly its happens to effect not only you but those drivers also who drives and even those pedestrian who are somewhere near you looking for room to go by.

Some how we always manage to find ourselves in the kind of dilemma that we literally stop thinking logically and practically and it’s very hard to think emotionally. Like you suddenly find your self in a position that you are working as a junior and there is chance for you to go to even higher level then you possibly can imagine and more unlikely there are also few candidates around that are trying for same, and it’s more confusing when they are your very close friends then you start pulling your emotions out of competition and start creating easy steps to get their and the most easy way prove yourself better then other, how? Start playing games (Politics in corporate language) start wooing your boss the way you never ever wooed your girlfriend or wife. And few of us even go further and try to spoil others good work. That’s how first you stop thinking emotionally then logically or better way to say morally and lastly practically.

I strongly believe that if you are truly talented and capable you will never try to play dirty games with the other who are also there to compete you. Yes there is possibility if other start doing those things with you it’s very important to keep your self aware with all the situations and defend yourself getting into the mess.

Very simply a robber never think anything like practically, emotionally, or morally and create so many situations that really very worst for those who are victim of his deed. I came across so many new that really make me so sad. In India mostly in family only one person earns and women do all house work to maintain life style & in some family his parents also depends on him. One robber tries to robe a man for only few hundred bucks and on get failing kill him well he got his bucks but he left 2-3 or more people to cry and find themselves all alone in this cruel world wife children & parents, this seems very filmy on first look but when you start thinking by their point of view you will find out how difficult it is to survive. Its very easy to say life is beautiful but living life is not as beautiful as you imagine it is.

I know it will be miracle if some one really shows interest in my blog. But that doesn’t mean I stop expressing my thought and what I feel about the world I live in.


I really feel very bad when I see people doing wrong things and getting success and it become worst when I find people doing morally correct things and getting into mess and consider as fools.

I use to hear that money can buy every thing but you can’t buy love, happiness and peace of mind. But if you think a bit practically is it possible that poor are always in love, happiness and very much in peace of mind?. The correct answer is NO, NO, NO. If you are reach every body start loving you that’s very natural because it’s very easy for you to find anything you want to make someone impressed by you. You can make easy way and make people happy and peace of mind I rather say its very controversial issue to discuss because in Sanskrit it a saying that “tunde tunde mati bhinna”. Tunde means head more specifically mind, mati means thinking and bhinna means different. In simple language difference of opinion. The thing is its not all correct that is written in books and that also doesn’t mean that all is not correct but then also important that what do I think and it may happen that it is not correct and also not wrong but does it means that others are correct and I should follow them they may be wrong?............confusion is always there even I don’t know what is in my mind. I think I lost my way. My point is it’s not but us who are responsible for such contradictory situations.

Well this is very clear that when someone who wants to speak about subject is very confused so what is with others. I don’t say I am very good and very true of heart but I learnt by my mistakes I have also done few thing without thinking and it went very badly for others and some time for me aswell.

Lastly there will be so many mistakes grammatically but I will try to write correctly as I am beginner also if some one really dared to read all my blog I am really very obliged and I promise that I will try my best to write something very interesting in future.

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